I will say this about the abortion argument.
If you don’t want the baby, ok, that’s fine and you should have the choice to get an abortion legally and safely.
But please give me a good reason you wouldn’t put the child up for adoption
Hi, I am an adult adoptee. And I am going to tell you straight up… I have health issues due to pre-natal neglect. That means that my birth mother, who was not given the option of abortion neglected me in the womb. And I am suffering and will continue to suffer the rest of my life, because she was forced to remains pregnant.
My sister and brother, also both adopted, tell the same story. We all have different health issues, and different mothers.
Adoption is a cure for parenthood. Not for pregnancy. Pregnancy can be hell on a healthy body and a healthy mind, much less any one with any degree of issue.
So stop. Just stop. Stop saying adoption is the perfect solution. Read up on the many many children in foster care because they are not perfect white babies.
When you say that adoption is the solution you are erasing all of the negative things that adoption carries with it. You imply that adoptees must be grateful, no matter their situation. And that is not okay.